Change What You Can

Gurpreet Kait
2 min readJun 9, 2024

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Hey, you might wonder why I’m using the title “You Never Did Wrong.” Well, this weekend wasn’t just another weekend for me; I learned a lot. I often talk with people and friends (not close ones, but acquaintances) and listen to them. Hardly anyone says that they were too happy today.

One of them was disturbed and talked about regretting their past actions. But does that matter now?

Skip it like we do with Reels

Why don’t you skip the bad memories or take it easy?

Everyone’s life is different, but everyone can move forward. Some relationships last 6+ years, while others end in 5–6 months. The logic here is simple: if you’re ending a relationship with no commitment or understanding, it doesn’t matter how long it lasts. What matters is how you handle the final mess.

Why do we take things so seriously? Why don’t we see our past days as just memories? We can’t change anything except the present and future. My take is to leave it and go with the flow. JUST ACCEPT IT.

If you did something wrong, like trusting someone you shouldn’t have, accept that it happened and move on. Be in the flow of life.

I don’t know, but this personal thought came to my mind: everyone shouldn’t hold onto things too long. Just leave it and accept the truth. Focus on the future, not the past.

Change what you can change, not what you can’t.

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